30 September 2018

Giving Our All




In 390 BCE, the Gauls, an ancient Celtic people, sent an army to take the city of Rome.  The Gauls tried to sneak into the city early one morning. Near the sanctuary dedicated to the goddess Juno, on the Capitoline Hill, lived a flock of geese, kept in a courtyard.  As the Gauls approached the geese were startled and began to honk loudly.  The captain of the guard, sleeping near the courtyard, heard their ruckus and woke up.  He spread word about the impending invasion, brought in more troops, and saved the city.  Juno, the wife of Jupiter, was considered the queen of the gods and the most powerful goddess.  She was originally the goddess of marriage and childbirth, the protectress of women, patroness of female virtue, and the patron goddess of Rome.  The Roman General Marcus Furius Camillus built a temple on the hill in gratitude for protecting the city.  She was known as Juno Moneta, from moneo, which means “to warn.”  Geese soon became symbols of Moneta, the goddess of warning—from which we get the English word money.  Around 290 BCE, the first Roman mint was built adjacent to the temple to Juno Moneta and the coins, struck with the head of Juno Moneta, were called moneta.  She became known as the protector of money and the guardian of finances.

Money and mint both evolved out of this ancient temple and mythos.  The myth taps into or reflects the way money is viewed as a god.  The myth also reminds us there’s something about money that is inherently alarming.  “Ever since the invention of Money, people have had to guard and defend it.  Now there was something worth stealing and an alarm to be sounded that we all must heed.”[1]

We remain enthralled to this myth, even if we don’t believe in the gods.  We do.  Money is a god.  It’s worshipped and praised by many.  If we’re not worshiping money or wealth, we certainly know the anxiety we feel around money, and alarm that it brings.  We’re anxious about having enough, about where it’s going to come from, and we worry about it being taken away or stolen.  Sometimes people who have more than they need and are at little risk of losing it are the most anxious.  People who have little or nothing have a different kind of anxiety, anxiety and fear that are justified and real.  Fear and anxiety over money can be devastating and dehumanizing and producing a lot of shame. 

Our two texts this morning, from Deuteronomy and 2 Corinthians, are two of many in the Bible that offers a very different attitude toward money and wealth and giving.  They form the foundation for a theology of stewardship that calls into question our views of money and wealth that trade in anxiety; these texts offer a different way, a way that is liberating and life-giving.

We begin, not with money, but with God.  God is always the starting point. We started with the great Shema, “Hear, O Israel, The LORD is our God, and the LORD alone. You shall love the LORD your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your might” (Deut. 6:4-5). Write this on your heart.  Inscribe it on your forehead. Mark it over the lintel of the door.  Don’t forget.  Remember.

What should we remember?  “Remember what the LORD—Yahweh—has done for you, remember the promise he swore to your ancestors to Abraham and Sarah, Isaac and Rebecca, and Jacob and Rachel and Leah.  When you enter into the land of promise, which did not belong to you, which was given to you as gift, and live in large cities, which you did not build, houses filled with all sorts of goods that you did not fill, hewn cisterns that you did not hew, vineyards and olive groves that you did not plant—and when you have eaten your fill, take care that you do not forget the LORD, who brought you out of the place of slavery. The LORD you shall fear, the LORD you shall serve, the LORD and the LORD alone is owed your loyalty (Deut. 6:10-13).

This text, and others like it, reminds us of the givenness of things, of all that we have but didn’t earn, is, like grace, a gift.  We are reminded of the prevenience of grace, the fact that grace is always prior, it always come first. The gift, that which has been given to us, is always first.  We don’t create the world, we are born into a world that is already here. When you consider the world, the gift of human existence, the gift of your life, the gift of God’s grace which has saved you and continues to save you and redeem you and make you whole, when you consider all that has been given to you—do not forget the Adonai.  Then let your worship, your life, your service be in response to the prevenient grace, to what has already been given to us. Give of yourself.

“The one who sows sparingly will also reap sparingly,” Paul said, “and the one who sows bountifully will also reap bountifully.”  Put in a little, then expect little.  Invest generously, expect a generous yield.  How you give, what you give is between you and God, whatever you decide, whatever your conscience dictates.  What matters most is that we give not reluctantly or under compulsion, not because it’s what’s expected of us, not because we have to, but because we want to.  This might not sound all that radical, but it was.  Because what you need to know is that in Roman society, which was extremely patriarchal and hierarchical, generosity and gratitude were often forced.  People were expected to express their gratitude to the emperor for what the emperor provides.  In this patron-client system, a patron provided protection, money, access to power in exchange for the client’s loyalty, allegiance, and thanksgiving.  Giving was not free.  It had conditions.  Protection, money, and access were given only when you promised loyalty and gratitude.[2]  It was an even exchange. The amount given was proportional to the response received.

However, what Paul is suggesting here about giving undercuts, even undermines the patron-client system.  We don’t give reluctantly, not because we must to be safe and secure.  That’s not motivating us. We give because we want to, because giving should be a matter of the heart.

Where’s your heart? Is your heart in it? God want us to give—whatever we give—from love. God wants us to give because we want to, because it brings us joy knowing that through what we give we are bringing joy to the world.  “God loves a cheerful giver” (2 Cor. 9:7).  The Greek is actually hilaritas.  In the Greco-Roman world, the goddess Hilaritas was the personification of cheerfulness, rejoicing, and mirth. She’s often seen holding a cornucopia, a horn of plenty, signifying abundance.  This is the root of the English word hilarity.  A better translation would be, “God loves a hilarious giver.” God wants your hilarity. You know what’s it’s like to be around someone who is hilarious, she causes you to laugh and laugh, and when you’re laughing with joy, it just flows and flows from a deep place; it’s there in abundance.

That’s what giving is like in the Christian life.  The apostle Paul is often described as the theologian of grace because he knew, first-hand, the transforming power of God’s grace, made real for him in the face of Jesus Christ.  When Paul experienced the enormous generosity of God’s love and grace toward him, it released something enormously generous and generative in him.  When we encounter this grace, when we experience it, when we’re pursued by grace, we discover that we are free to be generous because there’s more than enough to go around, there’s never any risk of losing what we have, because, technically-speaking, we don’t have anything that really belongs to us.  We’re drinking from cisterns that we haven’t hewn. So we are free to share.  “And God is able,” said Paul, “to provide you with every blessing in abundance, so that by always having enough of everything, you may share abundantly in every good work” (2 Cor. 9:8).

Grace and gratitude.[3] These two words pretty much sum up the Christian life. The more we experience God's generous grace toward us, the more our hearts are moved to respond with gratitude. Just as grace is experienced in a variety of ways in our lives, so, too, is gratitude.

But sometimes there’s a “gratitude gap.”  That’s what contemporary religion scholar Diana Butler Bass describes in her recently released book Grateful: The Transformative Power of Giving Thanks. This past week The Presbyterian Foundation hosted a stewardship conference in St. Louis where Bass was one of the keynote speakers.  I wish I could have been there, but I followed online.  Back in 2015, she came across a disturbing statistic in a study conducted by the Pew Forum.  The survey indicated that 78 percent of Americans said they had experienced gratitude within the past week.  “Seventy-eight percent is an extraordinarily high number,” she said.  “I sat for a moment with that and thought, ‘Wow that’s really wonderful that eight out of 10 Americans say they’ve felt strongly grateful in the last seven days.” She said, “Wow,” but then asked, “Am I one of the 78 or one of the 22?”[4] This began her exploration of gratitude; she wanted to be more grateful in her life.

There are two important aspects of gratitude that she unearthed in her research.  First, she found that American men are uncomfortable with the concept of gratitude. Why? “Being strongly indoctrinated in the importance of being ‘self-made,’ men find it an insult to be told they didn’t accomplish their feats alone. “No one gives me anything.” “I do it myself.”  “I earned it myself.” “I don’t owe anyone anything.”  This is the prize narrative in our culture and has influenced American men. This attitude has shaped how we view gratitude. But, remember, we live in cities that we didn’t build, drink from cisterns that we did not hew, enjoy the fruit of vines which we did not plant.

For all of us, Bass believes, there is within American society a “gratitude gap.” Most of us know that gratitude is good. Being grateful is actually good for us.  Still, there is a gap between our desire to be grateful and our ability to behave gratefully. We might feel personally grateful, but we fail to convey our gratitude in a public way, and this is adversely affecting our personal and public lives.  Bass has found that, “Being grateful does not appear to make much difference in our larger common life.”  This has enormous implications for society and institutions, including the church. How do we move from private gratitude to public gratitude?

In Marilynne Robinson's novel Gilead, the ailing Congregationalist minister John Ames tells his son, “There is more beauty than our eyes can bear, precious things have been put into our hands and to do nothing to honor them is to do great harm.”[5]  I love this sentence.  I love Gilead, it’s one of my favorite novels.  I love Marilynn Robinson’s writings, she’s a person of deep faith and searing insight and a great lover of John Calvin (1509-1564)—she understands Calvin better than most.  Calvinist or Reformed theology is imbued throughout her works, including Gilead, especially this one sentence.  

This sentence beautifully sums up the Reformed claim that grace and gratitude are at the heart of the Christian life.  And Calvin wrote quite a lot about beauty.[6]  Beauty is all around us, more than our eyes can bear, beauty not of our own making, prevenient beauty. Given to us.  Indeed, much—so much—has been given to us.  Precious things have been put into our hands, entrusted to us, and to do nothing to honor them, to fail to acknowledge them, to use them, to share them, even to give them away, is to do great harm.  This is a profound insight—and it haunts me, actually. To withhold our gratitude, to not be generous with what has been placed into our hands, into our lives, into our bank accounts, especially when we have the capacity to be more grateful and generous, is to do great harm. We cut, we sever the grace-gratitude connection, and our souls suffer as a result.

“Hear, O Israel: The LORD is our God, and the LORD alone. You shall love the LORD your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your might” (Deut. 6:4-5). All.  Not some.  Not a little. Not enough. All.

With gratitude, we are call to be good stewards of our time, talent, and treasure.  Being a good steward is to honor what has been given to us.  It means not holding back.  We are free to be hilariously generous with our time, talent, and treasure. But woe to us when we prefer to be too cautious, when we hold back, when we withhold, when anxiety and fear take control of our lives.  

Where in our lives are we holding back our time, our talents, and our treasure?   Where can we be more generous with our time? Not because we have to, but because we want to?  Where does the heart want to be more generous?  How can we be more generous with our gifts—to really use them and not hide them under a bushel? Where can we be more generous with our financial resources to do more good in the world?  What harm are we doing, often unintentionally, by holding back or withholding our time, our talents, our gifts, our love?

Gratitude takes many forms. What matters most is that we respond to the gift of grace, and not hold back.





[1] Aaron R. Kipnis, The Midas Complex: How Money Drives Us Crazy and What We Can Do about It (2013).
[2] Diana Butler Bass, Grateful: The Transformative Power of Giving (HarperOne, 2018).
[3] See Brian Gerrish’s brilliant text Grace and Gratitude: The Eucharistic Theology of John Calvin
[4] Presbyterian Foundation, Stewardship Kaleidoscope, September 25, 2018. 
[5] Marilynne Robinson, Gilead (Picador Books, 2006), 290
[6] On beauty in the Reformed tradition see Belden C. Lane, Ravished by Beauty: The Surprising Legacy of Reformed Spirituality (New York: Oxford University Press, 2011).